Last night I dreamt of complicated relationships, both romantic and platonic. I ran through sleep confused and little sad. Mostly trying to get to my big sister, so I could talk to her, so I could relax, so I could stop worrying. There was a nice date in the dream that consisted of lots and lots of of amazing Chinese food. And closets full of clothes I’ve never seen. But mostly it was dreams of painful situations and anxiety and complications. Um, Boots, clearly I need to call you today. I have a ton to do, but I’mna try and set some time to empty my head to you.
Sometimes I feel like the past chases me in this weird way. Like I rarely dwell on it. I remember the good times fondly and I’ve made peace with the bad parts. I live entirely in the present and look positively toward to future all the time (maybe too much, but that’s a story for a different day). And yet the past often haunts my dreams. Not specific incidents, but people from all through it, elementary school, High school, college, last week, all seem to pop up in random storylines in strange dreamscapes. I don’t know what this means. If I should look more to the past, or if I should simply remember that going forward I am only made up of the past. I am nothing but an accumulation of my experiences and so, even if I’ve made peace, I am still carrying all the past with me?
Work last night was killer. I am generally aware that I have one of the most simple jobs. It’s really pretty easy for the most part. But, wow, fuck me, after having a week off, I’d forgotten how hard it is to wait tables. By the end of the night, my back hurt, I was exhausted. I could talk to people just fine, but I’d lost the body memory of the job. Like I wasn’t able to move around right in the kitchen and cramped spaces with other employees, I was bumping into things and generally was not at all graceful.
Also it was nearly 90 at midnight last night and swampy. The rains rolled in this morning. The thunder was incredibly long and loud and close for for what seemed a very long time. Like storm wasn’t rolling over, but rather just hanging over us.